Ok, since it seems like good advice is being given...

Wylie is driving me BONKERS! He completely freaks out in new situations. For instance; cried when shown his easter basket, cried when he saw his birthday cupcake and candle, completely freaked out at Ava's 2nd bday party. Does anyone know what to do with this? Is there something I should be doing differently? Has anyone experienced this? Is it a stage in his development? I could use some help with this...we're struggling.