Sounds like you've got a good attitude!!! I think I almost went out of my mind with her. I think more time with others is probably a good idea. Just make sure they can take it. It was very distressing for me to see Eric's mother on the edge of a heart attack. Although she is not in the best of health anyway. Other people just kept telling me that it is way worse to endure the crying when it is your own kid, so I tried to go with that. Good luck! For us it kind of took a while, but like I said, it did pass. I think Jo's advice of drinking is good too!!!