i am going to throw 2 ideas out for "girl's weekend". bash them if you want- my feelings will not be hurt. if we still want to do the english beat they will be in solana beach on june 12th or 13th. there is also a oingo boingo tribute band called dead man's party that is playing with a u2 tribute band in redondo beach (at some place called the brixton) on june 12th. of course this would put us back down south - which doesn't matter to me since i am traveling either way. since this is really merediths bridal shower we should probably get her input of what she would want to do. anyways - just some ideas. anyone have any others????